How to Use Icebreakers When Chatting with Women Online

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- Hey
- Hi
- What are you doing?
- Nothing…
- Me too…

Everybody had a talk like this one.

Most guys are sure the hardest part of online dating is to start a conversation with a woman you've never seen before. It's very challenging and stressful. Especially if she doesn't help you find topics to discuss. Thank god, there are icebreakers! If you want to learn how to make your online talks exciting and intriguing, continue reading.

Don't wait for a reply to your "Hi"

Note that women's inboxes are overflowing with messages like "Hey," "Hi there," "Hello," "What's up," 'How are you doing," and others. And they are really tired of responding to such messages.

If the only thing you've written to a woman on a dating site is greeting, think that you've sent her nothing. Please, don't waste your and lady's time on exchanging annoying messages that have no sense. They are killing your chances to build a connection.

Be creative

The more attractive a woman is, the more creative you should be to hook her attention.

An excellent way to start a conversation online is to ask a lady both intriguing and funny closed question, like this one:

"What is your biggest fear – Pennywise, spiders, or men who write you 'hey, what's up?' on dating sites?"

Such icebreakers help you both learn something about this woman and show her that you have a sense of humor. Invest several hours of your time in creating powerful icebreakers, and chatting on a dating site will become much less stressful.

Melt her heart with a compliment

If you want to earn additional points, start your first message with a compliment. 'It looks like you have a good sense of adventure', 'It seems you are smart and intelligent', 'You make an impression of a person with a good sense of humor'… Most women are smart, funny, and enjoy travel. So your lady will think that you've already read her profile and, trust me, it will make her feel special.

Send your icebreakers to different women

But the best thing about icebreakers is that they are universal templates that will work with any woman. So you can send them to as many women as you want. Using icebreakers, you don't need to read ladies' dating profiles hoping to find common interests to start a conversation. You just need to copy and paste the message you've already created and then wait for dozens of responses.

So don't be lazy. Forget about winking smiles and banal, boring messages. Instead, put a little effort into creating funny icebreakers – and you will surprise with the number of responses from beauties you will get.

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This site is a free online resource aimed to be helpful in comparing and choosing the proper dating service. It cannot and does not provide information about every dating site or dating site offer available.

The operator of this site receives advertising compensation in various forms from companies that provide the services appearing on the site. Such compensation influences the location and order in which the products or services are presented, as well as their rating.

At the same time, please note that the compensation received is not the only factor that impacts the content, topics or posts on the site. Our ratings, opinions or findings are based on the analysis of various criteria that also include brand market share, reputation, conversion rates and general consumer interest.

In addition, the site also contains various advertising materials, including but not limited to banners, video-materials, pop-ups, etc. The texts here are written in an artistic manner and may contain wording exaggerations.